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Cedarhurst of FarmingtonAssisted living · Licensed for memory care
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A woman laughing with coworkers in a meeting

In a meeting2:14 PM

Hattienow

A room just opened at Aspen GlenPrivate suite, garden side. Want me to ask them to hold it?
A dad cheering at his kid’s soccer game

At practice5:40 PM

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Tour requested at Lakeview CommonsSaturday morning. I’ll let you know the second they confirm.
A woman meditating in a group yoga class

Even at yoga9:30 AM

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Good news: Lulu can come tooCedar Grove takes cats, and there’s no pet fee.
A couple laughing while cooking dinner

Making dinner6:52 PM

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Willow Creek, all in: $5,180 a monthThat includes her meds. It fits her budget.
A couple walking up to a senior living home for a tour

Pulling in9:52 AM

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Your Juniper House tour starts in 10 minutesYour scorecard and your 3 questions are ready.
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Boarding8:05 AM

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Your sister gave Oak Hill a 4That’s 2 of 3 of you in. Your brother wants one more look.
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Living room on a tour

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Compare3 saved homes
Willow CreekMemory care
Oak Hill TerraceAssisted living
Maple RidgeAssisted living

Monthly, all in

$5,180
$4,920
$5,650

State record

Clean
1 minor
Clean

Family score

4.7
4.0
3.3

Memory care

Yes
Yes
No

Drive from you

12 min
25 min
8 min
YDL
Family favoriteWillow Creek · 3 of 3 in
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CareMemory care
WhereNear Minneapolis
BudgetUp to $5,500 a month
Must haveRoom for her cat, Lulu

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everything in her file
Finding Mom's placeYou, Uncle David and Aunt Linda
YDL
Aunt LindaI loved our Oak Hill Terrace tour, but I can't remember if they had a garden.
Honestly, me either. @Hattie did Oak Hill Terrace have a garden?

HattieThey did. Uncle David took a photo of it on your Oct 14 tour.

The garden at Oak Hill Terrace

DUncle David“Mom’s going to live out here.”

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A caregiver holding hands with a smiling residentAssisted livingTheir own apartment, with help bathing, dressing and medicine.A caregiver talking with an older womanMemory careSecure, calm and staffed by people trained in dementia care.Friends sharing coffee at a cafe tableIndependent livingNo yard work or cooking for one. Neighbors and meals close by.A caregiver helping an older man at the tableComing soonIn-home careHelp at home a few hours a day.

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Yes. Families never pay us. When someone moves into a partner home they found through DearMom, that home pays us. It never changes which homes we show you.

The home passed all four of our checks: 3 years of clean state inspections with every citation fixed, no substantiated abuse or neglect complaints, Google reviews that a person on our team reads (a home comes off if it averages under 3.5 stars on 5 or more reviews, or if recent reviews keep describing the same safety problem), and an active license in good standing. We recheck every 3 months, and a home that slips comes off the site. No home can pay to get on or stay on.

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